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    Let Jesus Redeem Your Painful Anniversary For You

    August. When Alice started feeling sick. When we began asking questions. When she was diagnosed. When we first heard the word “cancer”. When she had surgery to remove her tumor. When we began her treatment process. When our world flipped…

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    Can You “Take Back” That Painful Anniversary?

    We’ve been talking about having grace toward ourselves and our families when those painful anniversaries come up on the calendar. This year, as our family anticipated the month of August (which is when we have lot of hard anniversaries) we…

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    How to Help Our Children Process Painful Memories

    Last week we talked about showing grace toward ourselves when our bodies act out in anticipation of painful anniversaries. But what about our kids? The anniversary of their grandparent’s death, or of their medical diagnosis, or of when their parents’…