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September 18, 2024Today’s post is a book review of We Shall All Be Changed by Whitney Pipkin. I am not an affiliate and am not being compensated for this review or any book purchases you may make. I simply want to share gospel encouragement with my readers. It is inevitable that we will be transformed when, and as, we lose a loved one. How we will be changed depends on where our hope is found. Whitney Pipkin, in her book We Shall All Be Changed, makes the case that the Gospel can be our anchor in the storm, and can move us…
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